There has been a great deal of learning regarding introverts recently. This has led to the changing of opinions and new viewpoints regarding select individuals. Many people might have made the mistake of thinking that the defining characteristics between the two personality types are that extroverts are outgoing and introverts are shy. While this generalization isn't false, there is much more going on in the minds and lives of individuals knows as introverts than many people aware of
Introverts are typically quieter than most people therefore it's easy for them to be misunderstood. When you're looking for studies showing the percent of the population that are introverts, you're likely to find numbers ranging from 25 to 50 percent. If you were to talk to them, most introverts would report feeling maligned by society. I believe this to be true due to the stereotypes that exist about this group.
The findings illustrate that understanding this personality dynamic shows traits that go well beyond a person's level of shyness. It's all about how a person gathers energy and the way they process information. Extroverts feel more energized in social situations while, on the other hand, introverts feel taxed when they're in those same situations. They need time alone, by themselves to "recharge." If you've ever know anyone who just didn't like going out very often and wondered what their deal was, it's not necessarily that the person is antisocial, they just don't have the energy for those kinds of things. It's not their fault, it's just the way they are.
I consider myself deeply introverted. I can live in my thoughts for hours on end and being part of social gatherings can be very exhausting for me. Again, it's not that I'm antisocial, I just need a lot more alone time than most people and I am very guarded with that time. It's very important to me. I also have the tendency to be very quiet. I prefer listening to talking and if I don't have anything important to add to a conversation, I won't say anything at all. I would make a terrible debater because I take a long time considering things in my mind and I dislike explaining myself and have difficulty with it.
I saw this book and knew that I needed to read it. I needed to understand myself better as an introvert as well to learn how to help change the view that the world has toward us. Go to your local bookseller or online here to purchase it. ALSO, Susan Cain has a great TED Conference Talk that is more than worth watching. Check it out here.